{"id":144253374,"date":"2024-05-03T12:30:52","date_gmt":"2024-05-03T12:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lazyandentitled.org\/?p=144253374"},"modified":"2025-07-31T16:31:46","modified_gmt":"2025-07-31T21:31:46","slug":"friday-links-your-life-matters-because-youre-living-it-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lazyandentitled.org\/?p=144253374","title":{"rendered":"Friday Links: Your Life Matters Because You&#039;re Living It Edition"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cYou know very well that the earth is filled with angels and djinn, partying like teenagers, spinning around like waterwheels. Come listen.\u201d &#8211; Kaveh Akbar, &#8216;Martyr!&#8217; <\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What up Friday, I am battling a mysterious illness that I\u2019m pretty sure isn\u2019t serious, but <em>is <\/em>leaving me in a lot of pain and making it hard to think. Y\u2019all are just gonna have to excuse any typos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I write anyway, because I imagine you, reader, basically two ways: 1) on the CTA to a job you hate, possibly hungover, thankful it\u2019s at least Friday or annoyed because Friday is your Monday or 2) at least partially responsibility-free and joyously cheering the end of the week. In both scenarios, this email is a treat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or as this week\u2019s author says in their Acknowledgments page, \u201cReader, your attention\u2014a measure of your time, your most non-replenishable resource\u2014is a profound gift, one I have done my best to honor. Thank you, thank you.\u201d THAT\u2019S RIGHT, WE\u2019RE READING KAVEH AKBAR THIS WEEK WOOOOOOOO!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What I\u2019ve Been Reading Lately:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First of all, Kaveh, if you happen to see this, sorry about the Bucks. At least Khris Middleton looked alive some this series. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quick story: I went to Kaveh\u2019s Chicago book tour stop at the Haymarket House, hosted by the incomparable Women &amp; Children First, H Melt, and Eve L. Ewing. I was wearing a Bulls shirt and so Kaveh and I talked basketball. I know, right?! The world is sometimes full of good things\u2014couplets with caesuras, the swish of a three\u2014but I had something I really wanted to say that for once did not involve Dame-Giannis PNRs. For the record, I did <em>not <\/em>tell him that he was one of the Twitter Poets Back In 2016-17 that inspired my beloved <span class=\"mention-wrap\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Bob Sykora&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:4418940,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/08735bc3-9219-47e9-bb05-a72e3369d2f9_813x960.jpeg&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;9592a577-6312-470a-ae77-c341fccf2f66&quot;}\" data-component-name=\"MentionToDOM\"> and I start <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/the-line-break\/id1524056726\">a podcast originally called \u201cPoets Love Basketball.\u201d<\/a> What I wanted to say, and it\u2019s an incredibly true thing is: \u201chey Kaveh, I went through years of burnout, where I didn\u2019t write anything and questioned if I even liked poetry, and both your work and constant posting of poems on Twitter helped rescue me from writing burnout.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You know what this man said to me? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThank you sincerely for saying that. Writers have been that for me, I\u2019ve been that for writers, and one day, you will be that for other writers.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/rip-martin-amis-my-literary-nemesis?utm_source=publication-search\">The opposite of Martin Amis<\/a>. Kaveh\u2019s about as tall as Victor Wembanyama, and all heart. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/76d5d7cb-1178-4434-953a-c833f8c2512b.heic\" alt=\"Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar and Pilgrim Bell by Kaveh Akbar\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>Pilgrim Bell <\/strong><\/em><strong>by Kaveh Akbar: <\/strong>Mal always says she can\u2019t trust me when I say she looks good because why would her husband say she looks bad? Well, lest you think I\u2019m going to spend the whole blog tongue-cleaning Kaveh\u2019s Jordans\u2014I thought <em>Pilgrim Bell <\/em>was fine. Not as earth-shattering as <em><a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/friday-links-read-poems-and-respect?utm_source=publication-search\">Calling A Wolf A Wolf<\/a><\/em>, although I\u2019m always glad when a poet tries to write a different book from their first. These poems are more spare, more devotional. It\u2019s not that I didn\u2019t like this collection, it\u2019s that it didn\u2019t quite sing to me the way Kaveh\u2019s other two books have. I\u2019ll return to this at some point\u2014maybe a second reading will open me more to letting the poems\u2019 magic  work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>Martyr!<\/strong><\/em><strong> by Kaveh Akbar: <\/strong>my God, this book. The trend of poets writing absolutely dynamite novels that I read for this blog continues. It takes a lot for me to say something should be required reading\u2014it\u2019s a thought-killing clich\u00e9 that reeks of Literary Hall Monitoring\u2014but I do think every writer should read this book. Certainly I, a recovering drunk who is obsessed with the idea of his books being <em>meaningful<\/em>, wish I had read this book when I was 26 instead of 36. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, this is a book starring a writer main character\u2014normally a pet peeve, the realm of philandering Updike narrators or white male navel-gazing\u2014but the writing conceit serves the project. Cyrus Shams is a poet obsessed with death mattering\/the concept of martyrdom, and when poets have an obsession that they\u2019re trying work out in book form, it\u2019s interesting. <a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/lets-close-read-another-poem\">Whether<\/a> or not <a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/the-poem-i-recommend-if-you-dont\">you like poetry<\/a>, the poetic process is supposed treat even the simplest concepts \u201cwith rigor,\u201d as<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/an-interview-with-jose-olivarez\/id1524056726?i=1000616832994\"> Jos\u00e9 Olivarez put on his <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/an-interview-with-jose-olivarez\/id1524056726?i=1000616832994\">The Line Break<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/an-interview-with-jose-olivarez\/id1524056726?i=1000616832994\"> appearance<\/a>. To watch Cyrus grapple with his martyr-obsession\u2014and in doing so, get a better understanding of his own life\u2019s purpose\u2014that\u2019s interesting, in this context. The book is littered with Cyrus\u2019s bad rough drafts, but even bad rough drafts written in a character\u2019s voice is new Kaveh Akbar poetry. It\u2019s all a treat, is what I\u2019m saying, and the treat is wrapped in an actually compelling narrative that is hard to put down. To bring up another reader\u2019s cliche, I am sad to have finished this novel, because it means I\u2019m no longer reading this novel. You should, though. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>LINKS!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is simply too much going on with the campus protests right now for me to do it any justice in covering it here. Not to mention, it\u2019s basically the only thing on my Bluesky feed rn, maybe you want a break. Also, if you read this blog, you can probably discern where I come down. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To the students who peacefully and clearly stating their demands (read: all of them?)\u2014solidarity. To the people brought in for the sole purpose of doing violence (read: cops)\u2014hey, consider a career change and therapy. To the administrators threatening to rescind degrees and having <em>students<\/em> arrested for standing up to injustice\u2014shame is a deep well that\u2019s hard to crawl out of, and I hope your journey is difficult. Personally, my Jesuit alma mater told us, metaphorically, to \u201cgo forth and set the world on fire.\u201d If trying to upend the military industrial complex and end the United States\u2019s funding of genocide <em>isn\u2019t<\/em> what Saint Ignatius was admonishing, then I must\u2019ve misunderstood. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anyway, here\u2019s Operation Ivy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Operation Ivy- Unity\" width=\"790\" height=\"593\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/L7-zRWai5yY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><p>Happy trails to Candace Parker, retiring as one of the greatest in her sport and the coolest athlete a Chicago team has acquired in my adult lifetime (honorable mention to DeMar DeRozan, Joakim Noah, Jimmy Butler, and Tim Anderson). She\u2019s also great for basketball media. <a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/candace-parker-remade-the-game-in-her-image\">Here\u2019s Maitreyi Anantharaman at <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/candace-parker-remade-the-game-in-her-image\">Defector<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/candace-parker-remade-the-game-in-her-image\"> on a person who truly loves basketball<\/a>: <strong>\u201c\u2026the real story of her career is one she doesn&#8217;t have to tell. Breanna Stewart tells it when she switches onto the perimeter, A&#8217;ja Wilson tells it running the floor, so does Alyssa Thomas racking up triple-doubles. Satou Sabally, Elena Delle Donne, Emma Meesseman\u2014every time they bend the rules of basketball a little bit, they tell Parker&#8217;s story.\u201d<\/strong> Thank you for bringing Chicago a championship, Candace. <\/p><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><p>Huh. A Boeing whistleblower who was a quality auditor one of their suppliers has died after, and I quote, a \u201csudden, fast-spreading infection\u201d even though \u201che was 45, had been in good health and was noted for having a healthy lifestyle.\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.seattletimes.com\/business\/whistleblower-josh-dean-of-boeing-supplier-spirit-aerosystems-has-died\/\">Dominic Gates and Lauren Rosenblatt report in <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.seattletimes.com\/business\/whistleblower-josh-dean-of-boeing-supplier-spirit-aerosystems-has-died\/\">Seattle Times<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.seattletimes.com\/business\/whistleblower-josh-dean-of-boeing-supplier-spirit-aerosystems-has-died\/\"> about Josh Dean<\/a>, a man with family and friends and who spent his last days on dialysis and intubated for reasons I\u2019m certain have no explanation. <a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/friday-links-punk-rock-and-fairy?utm_source=publication-search\">It\u2019s not like anything like this has happened before<\/a>. <\/p><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><p>Wanna read a poem? I wanna read a poem. It\u2019s not gonna cheer us up, even though it\u2019s really good. Here\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/superstitionreview.asu.edu\/issue33\/poetry\/ianwilliams\">Ian Williams in <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/superstitionreview.asu.edu\/issue33\/poetry\/ianwilliams\">Superstition Review<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/superstitionreview.asu.edu\/issue33\/poetry\/ianwilliams\"> with \u201cMAKE SURE TO SMILE AND GREET STUDENTS AS YOU GUIDE THEM THROUGH THE WEAPONS DETECTION CHECKPOINT.\u201d<\/a><\/p><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><p>Some good news, finally! Illinois is finally home to federally protected tribal land, after a portion of the state was given back to the Prairie Band Potawatomi Nation. <a href=\"https:\/\/news.wttw.com\/2024\/04\/19\/illinois-now-home-federally-recognized-tribal-land-after-prairie-band-potawatomi-nation\">Eunice Alpasan at <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/news.wttw.com\/2024\/04\/19\/illinois-now-home-federally-recognized-tribal-land-after-prairie-band-potawatomi-nation\">WTTW<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/news.wttw.com\/2024\/04\/19\/illinois-now-home-federally-recognized-tribal-land-after-prairie-band-potawatomi-nation\"> reports<\/a>. More, I say, more. <\/p><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><p>Here\u2019s something else comforting: cosmic insignificance! I could use some cosmic insignificance, Kaveh Akbar makes me crave cosmic insignificance and feel like life matters at the same time. <a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/the-closer-we-look-the-smaller-we-get\">Here\u2019s Barry Petchesky at <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/the-closer-we-look-the-smaller-we-get\">Defector<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/the-closer-we-look-the-smaller-we-get\"> looking closer at the images the James Webb Space Telescope is sending<\/a> back to us, and feeling smaller: <strong>\u201cBut a funny thing happens when you look at our big honking universe. Anything with a sense of scale breaks down under enough magnification, because there is something smaller, older, farther away behind it. Lots of somethings.\u201d <\/strong>You\u2019ll never think of the Horsehead Nebula the same again. <\/p><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019re you still doing here? It\u2019s Friday and I assume the weather\u2019s nice, if it\u2019s not raining. (I\u2019m writing this on a Thursday, btw. Sorry to ruin the magic.) Either go outside, or <a href=\"https:\/\/moistpoetryjournal.com\/2024\/04\/18\/warm-february-watching-nature-documentaries\/\">go read my poem in <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/moistpoetryjournal.com\/2024\/04\/18\/warm-february-watching-nature-documentaries\/\">Moist Poetry Journal<\/a><\/em> and the 29 other poems Han published this month. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here\u2019s Jamal Murray, for some joy: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Jamal Murray&#039;s Two Game Winning Shots In The First Round \ud83c\udff9\" width=\"790\" height=\"444\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/inCcQgcWmY8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you work in the service industry, may you clean up in tips this weekend. In <em>Martyr!<\/em>, the artist Orkideh is working in a diner when she gets her big break. A gallery owner asks if she\u2019s a painter, and she says she works in a diner. Listen: there is honor in pouring diner coffee. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorry you got an email, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chris<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"subscription-widget-wrap-editor\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}\" data-component-name=\"SubscribeWidgetToDOM\">\n<div class=\"subscription-widget show-subscribe\">\n<div class=\"preamble\">\n<p class=\"cta-caption\">Thanks for reading shipwrecked sailor! 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