{"id":145302247,"date":"2024-06-14T11:31:12","date_gmt":"2024-06-14T11:31:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lazyandentitled.org\/?p=145302247"},"modified":"2024-06-14T11:31:12","modified_gmt":"2024-06-14T11:31:12","slug":"friday-links-summer-reading-during-bro-summer-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lazyandentitled.org\/?p=145302247","title":{"rendered":"Friday Links: Summer Reading During Bro Summer Edition"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cDon\u2019t use swear words in public. \/\/ Do use swear words to express yourself; \/ you write so damn much,\u201d &#8211; Maya Williams, \u201cContradictions Of My Mother\u201d<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/the-internet-is-a-nazi-bar\">Nazis unwelcome: here\u2019s my post about moving this blog off of Substack soon<\/a>. I might put this stinger on every post until then to try to irritate <a href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@hamish\/note\/c-45811343\">Nazi Sympathizer Hamish McKenzie<\/a>. I might forget\/get bored and stop. Not today though!<\/em><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cottonxenomorph.com\/\">Cotton Xenomorph\u2019s<\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cottonxenomorph.com\/\"> last \u2018Cryptids and Climate Change\u2019 pieces have been published<\/a>! What a joy it was to edit this issue. <\/em>CX<em> will reopen for submissions in July, so get your writing fingers twitching!<\/em><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Another quick writing brag\u2014it\u2019s not Aimee Bender saying she liked my story, but it is actual publication, which rules! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.therumen.com\/publications\/MqAibZJdByAG2D3oOR8w\">I\u2019ve got three poems in <\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.therumen.com\/publications\/MqAibZJdByAG2D3oOR8w\">The Rumen<\/a><em>. Wanna read about my brother and I getting ambushed by otters in the Grand Tetons? It\u2019s only sort of alluded to, but there\u2019s other cool stuff in those poems, don\u2019t worry. <\/em><\/p><hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Reading is so fun, y\u2019all. Yet summer is so full of parenting! Today, I took my kid to the Coretta Scott King\/MLK statue on the Boston Common, then the Margaritaville at Faneuil Hall, then finally to Fenway Park to watch the Red Sox whomp the Phillies. Two days before this, I took the kid to Boston. Obviously, there hasn\u2019t been as much time for reading, but to go a day without reading is\u2014do people do that? Like even if I\u2019m not reading a book I\u2019m at least reading articles. <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I also like lifting weights and high-fiving. Imagine all of us high-fiving, as you read this.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What I\u2019ve Been Reading This Week: <\/strong><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gotta be honest, I started a truly incredible novel this week. I first read an excerpt in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marisacrane.org\/\">Mac Crane<\/a>\u2019s experimental writing workshop and was immediately taken. Bought the book a few months ago and it finally made it to the schedule. Then I got on an airplane, reached in my backpack, and\u2014Novel Not There. You know what, though? It\u2019s just more time I have to spend with it. That\u2019s exciting. If you want to read along with this blog, and your idea of a good book is a partially-third-person, interrupted-mid-sentence-by-first person novel about an Afro-Colombian trans woman who gained her freedom after an unjust 22-year bid in Ithaca and then trying to find her way in 2015 Brooklyn? You got a week to read <em>Didn\u2019t Nobody Give A Shit What Happened To Carlotta<\/em> by James Hannaham.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the meantime, we got a kickass book of poetry, written by a friend. I\u2019m talking, of course, about <em>Refused a Second Date<\/em> by Maya Williams. <\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/370a4800-eef6-4f2c-8067-90a1ca52f8e2_3024x4032.heic\" alt=\"Refused A Second Date by Maya Williams\"\/><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This book is a journey, in the sense that you can see Maya tracing family lineage (not just in the poems titled \u201cLineage,\u201d either). The poems are mostly short, and some take on a kind of \u201cfield notes on dating\u201d quality, with never-have-I-evers and recounted first dates after dating app matches and clinically logical arguments to not have children. This gets at two of the main things I associate with Maya: 1) what they called in their <em><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/an-interview-with-maya-williams\/id1524056726?i=1000613226152\">The Line Break<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/an-interview-with-maya-williams\/id1524056726?i=1000613226152\"> interview <\/a>\u201ccrispness,\u201d a trim-the-fat hold-the-tomatoes approach to line-writing and 2) ever-so-patiently explaining to incredulous family members eir outside-the-mainstream life. The book builds on itself, though: first date poems lead to The Last First Date poem, conflicts with family members evolve and resolve, and by the end, you feel like you\u2019ve just watched someone finally get to a point where they can close a certain chapter in life and move to a new chapter.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>LINKS!<\/strong><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Something to listen to while you browse? I was really jamming on the 8-Bit Big Band a few days ago. Big band music can sometimes feel a little edge-less to me\u2014a campy, goofy version of jazz where individual expression is restricted to same-y sounding solos. Big band music <em>can also be super exciting<\/em>, harmonies spaced out in strange ways, melodies and counter-melodies swirling around each other, all with the good, good vibes that come any time you get horn players having fun together (ask Earth, Wind and Fire, or the city of New Orleans). You already know I\u2019m a massive <em>Animal Crossing<\/em> fan. Let\u2019s make like Quincy Jones and groove on some bossa, specifically, \u201cK.K. Bossa.\u201d<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"K.K. Bossa (Animal Crossing) Big Band Version - The 8-Bit Big Band ft. K.K. Slider!\" width=\"790\" height=\"444\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Gy2beLxmrs0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><p>It\u2019s no secret I\u2019m a big fan of <em>Defector<\/em>. I also <a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/physicality-in-writing?utm_source=publication-search\">like working out<\/a>, am uncomfortable with negative feelings, enjoy hot dogs, love hanging out on my bro\u2019s couch watching the WNBA, and unbuttoning my shirt to my belly button. Therefore, even though like 97% of what <em>Defector <\/em>publishes is greatly enjoyable and like 80% is absolute must-read, I can say with confidence that <a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/bro-summer-waits-for-us-all\">Kelsey McKinney\u2019s blog on Bro Summer is the important blog <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/bro-summer-waits-for-us-all\">Defector<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/defector.com\/bro-summer-waits-for-us-all\"> has ever published<\/a>. <\/p><\/li><li><p>Wonderful to see <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ocregister.com\/2024\/05\/31\/25-years-of-noon-diane-williams-on-the-shock-suspense-and-surprise-of-stories\/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email\">Diane Williams interviewed by Erik Penderson in <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ocregister.com\/2024\/05\/31\/25-years-of-noon-diane-williams-on-the-shock-suspense-and-surprise-of-stories\/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email\">The OC Register<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ocregister.com\/2024\/05\/31\/25-years-of-noon-diane-williams-on-the-shock-suspense-and-surprise-of-stories\/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email\"> for the 25th anniversary of <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ocregister.com\/2024\/05\/31\/25-years-of-noon-diane-williams-on-the-shock-suspense-and-surprise-of-stories\/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email\">NOON<\/a><\/em>, a truly great lit mag. <em>NOON <\/em>is tasteful, gorgeous, and features enough masterful writing that they can be forgiven for launching Tao Lin\u2019s boring-ass waste of a career. Still, I had no idea <em>just how much<\/em> effort and labor-of-love stuff goes into it. Cheers to Diane Williams. <\/p><\/li><li><p>Cool profile in <em><a href=\"https:\/\/blockclubchicago.org\/2024\/06\/05\/this-edgewater-artist-turns-cicadas-into-jewelry\/\">Block Club<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/blockclubchicago.org\/2024\/06\/05\/this-edgewater-artist-turns-cicadas-into-jewelry\/\"> from Crystal Paul of Sophia Catania, an Edgewater-based jewelry maker who turns cicadas into wearable trinkets<\/a>. Nature is full of wonders and magic. Making jewelry out of things found in nature is one of humanity\u2019s oldest and noblest callings. Reading this was a welcome respite from all the \u201cope, ah geez, these cicada jagoffs are <em>everywhere<\/em>! Wrap up the trees!\u201d loser talk we\u2019ve been getting. Cicadas are cool! They\u2019re not nearly as swarmy in Chicago as they are in Tennessee!<\/p><\/li><li><p>Something I need to read up a little more on: child liberation theology. <a href=\"https:\/\/rlstollar.com\/2023\/10\/15\/mr-rogers-and-child-liberation-theology\/\">This blog from R.L. Stollar<\/a>\u2014cutting room floor questions from an interview that are nevertheless pretty interesting\u2014came across my Bluesky feed, and, well, I\u2019ll probably click on something that invokes Mr. Rogers in a quest for liberation. The part about God incarnate as a child\u2014and therefore the opportunity for humans to witness God <em>learning<\/em>\u2014is going to be skateboard wheel spinning through my brain walkways for a while. <\/p><\/li><li><p>Surprise surprise, when you teach neurodivergent kids about their conditions and how their brains work, they flourish. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.scientificamerican.com\/article\/neurodivergent-kids-flourish-when-theyre-taught-how-their-brains-work\/\">Jerome Schultz writes in <\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.scientificamerican.com\/article\/neurodivergent-kids-flourish-when-theyre-taught-how-their-brains-work\/\">The Scientific American<\/a><\/em> that \u201cI\u2019ve observed that when enlightened educators, parents or therapists help kids understand the nature and effects of their condition on thinking and learning, this has resulted in a sense of competence and increased confidence\u2014traits these students carried with them as they encountered (and sought out) more challenging academic tasks.\u201d I do feel I should state before you click that this is an opinion piece and not a study, but it makes a lot of sense. Self-knowledge and understanding is a lifelong journey. The world waking up to Autisim, ADHD, dyslexia, and other neurodivergencies, and adjusting the way we interact with each other\u2014this will only produce a healthier, more unselfish society. <\/p><\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019re you still doing here? I\u2019m gonna try to take one of those duck tours today. Quack, quack, Sully. Wanna see a Gutenberg Bible? <\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/bcaf1eff-f9e8-4a5a-b99b-2a49b3a2761d_2861x1861.heic\" alt=\"a Gutenberg Bible on displayed under a glass case\"\/><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you work in the service industry, may you clean up in tips this weekend. If you\u2019re an undercover State Police Detective trying to infiltrate an aging mob boss crew and become is right-hand man? First of all, that\u2019s not the service industry. Second of all, do I get some sort of medal for going this long without mentioning <em>The Departed<\/em>? <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorry you got an email, <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chris<\/p><div class=\"subscription-widget-wrap-editor\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}\" data-component-name=\"SubscribeWidgetToDOM\"><div class=\"subscription-widget show-subscribe\"><div class=\"preamble\"><p class=\"cta-caption\">Thanks for reading shipwrecked sailor! 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