{"id":145522058,"date":"2024-06-12T12:31:04","date_gmt":"2024-06-12T12:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lazyandentitled.org\/?p=145522058"},"modified":"2024-06-12T12:31:04","modified_gmt":"2024-06-12T12:31:04","slug":"the-state-of-utah-says-they-love-their-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lazyandentitled.org\/?p=145522058","title":{"rendered":"The State Of Utah Says They Love Their Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&#8220;You always told me it takes time&#8230;How much time do you want for your &#8216;progress&#8217;?&#8221; &#8211; James Baldwin, interviewed<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/shipwreckedsailor.substack.com\/p\/the-internet-is-a-nazi-bar\">Nazis unwelcome: here\u2019s my post about moving this blog off of Substack soon<\/a>. I might put this stinger on every post until then to try to irritate <a href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@hamish\/note\/c-45811343\">Nazi Sympathizer Hamish McKenzie<\/a>. I might forget\/get bored and stop. Not today though!<\/em><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>It\u2019s <\/em>Cotton Xenomorph\u2019s<em> last \u2018Cryptids and Climate Change\u2019 pieces! What fun it\u2019s been editing this issue and seeing these pieces roll out. I hope, if you\u2019ve clicked on any of these links, you\u2019ve found some cool writers you liked. Check out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cottonxenomorph.com\/journal\/2024\/6\/7-lakebed\">\u201cLakebed\u201d by Rabbitfeet<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cottonxenomorph.com\/journal\/2024\/6\/11-a-girl-activates-god-mode\">\u201cA Girl Activates God Mode\u201d by Ruth Joffre<\/a>. I saved two absolute bangers for the end, I promise. <\/em><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">CX<em> will reopen for submissions in July, so get your writing fingers twitching!<\/em><\/p><hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It would be nice to say it\u2019s a settled issue that being LGBTQIA+ is not a choice. But it\u2019s only a settled issue in my mind because I\u2019m not in Youth Group anymore and don\u2019t talk to people who think it is a choice anymore. 20 years after a man who also thought the theory of evolution was bunk was trying to convince me \u201cthe queers could repent any time they wanted,\u201d it\u2019s a mainstream debate about just how many people who go on HRT later regret it. <a href=\"https:\/\/apnews.com\/article\/transgender-treatment-regret-detransition-371e927ec6e7a24cd9c77b5371c6ba2b\">Something like three or four people, if I understand correctly<\/a>. <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What I\u2019m getting at is: it\u2019s been long enough, and you don\u2019t have to have patience with queerphobes. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=AkSXRN5dILo\">David Lynch has already told them to fix their hearts<\/a>. <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Utah Governor Spencer Cox has declared <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fox13now.com\/news\/politics\/utahs-governor-issues-pride-month-proclamation\">this year\u2019s Pride month to be a \u201cmonth of bridge-building.\u201d<\/a> This comes after his 2023 declaration, which <a href=\"https:\/\/www.axios.com\/2023\/06\/02\/utah-governor-pride-month-declaration-lgbtq-spencer-cox\">omitted all use of the LGBTQIA+ acronym<\/a> (that\u2019s an <em>Axios <\/em>link, I understand if you don\u2019t wanna click it). Here\u2019s the 2024 declaration, followed by a few of the choicest cuts of Whereases: <\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/cd0f1a99-04d5-4e4b-9fea-79233815d94a_870x1390.png\" alt=\"Cox pride proclamation\"\/><\/figure><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Whereas, we understand the shared human need for connection, kindness, understanding, and friendship; <\/p><p>Whereas, we recognize that a pluralistic society with differing ideas, people and personal beliefs is foundational to the American experience; <\/p><p>\u2026<\/p><p>Whereas, we recognize that there are many Utahns, including those who do not identify with, celebrate or support Pride celebrations, who nevertheless share the experience of being marginalized, rejected or isolated;<\/p><p>\u2026<\/p><p>Whereas, in Utah we love our children and we hope to live in such a way that our children will forever love us even if at times we may disagree over deeply-held personal views or beliefs;<\/p><\/blockquote><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As far as Governor\u2019s declarations go, it\u2019s a far cry from <a href=\"https:\/\/bleacherreport.com\/articles\/10122179-minnesota-gov-subtly-uses-bring-ya-ass-in-proclamation-ahead-of-mavs-wolves-series\"><s>BRING YA ASS<\/s> LET\u2019S GO WOLVES<\/a>.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Anthony Edwards Tells Chuck To &quot;Bring Ya Ass!&quot; To Minnesota |  \ud83d\ude02  NBA on TNT\" width=\"790\" height=\"444\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aIKGli2fVvs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anyway, it\u2019s that last one that gives away the game for me.<em> We want our children to love us forever please just come to Christmas this year, I\u2019m not asking for Thanksgiving, just Jesus\u2019s birthday, please<\/em> one. <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I prefer to be a peacemaker <em>(that\u2019s the Christian way my mom puts it, anyway, I might argue I\u2019m paralyzingly conflict-averse)<\/em>. But let\u2019s be serious. <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Look, there\u2019s a parallel dimension somewhere that is ruled by civility and actual friendly disagreements where all these <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/part-one-thomas-jefferson-king-of-hypocrites\/id1373812661?i=1000657774750\">statements about bridge-building are good faith<\/a>, face-value statements. But the country founded on genocide, <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/part-two-thomas-jefferson-king-of-hypocrites\/id1373812661?i=1000658026746\">built by slave labor<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/part-three-thomas-jefferson-king-of-hypocrites\/id1373812661?i=1000658590050\">currently experiencing ascendant fascism<\/a> ain\u2019t it. Double-talk is in the US\u2019s blood.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Right now, the Supreme Court\u2014an <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/part-one-the-clarence-thomas-story\/id1373812661?i=1000571206147\">illegitimate<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/283-the-worst-supreme-court-justice-ever-live-in-dc\/id643055307?i=1000389962152\">outdated<\/a> institution full of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pbs.org\/newshour\/politics\/who-is-ginni-thomas-and-why-is-she-important-to-the-jan-6-hearings\">seditious<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/politics\/politics-features\/supreme-court-martha-ann-alito-pride-flags-left-media-1235037338\/\">suburbanites<\/a> that will destroy countless lives for a generation thanks to <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/part-one-how-conservatism-won\/id1373812661?i=1000651167970\">the Federalist Society<\/a> and Donald Trump\u2014has rolled back voting rights protections. They have rolled back discrimination protections, leading to <a href=\"https:\/\/apnews.com\/article\/dei-diversity-corporate-ruling-9a4e4d28b813d42c96341ed0475dcecc\">white people successfully suing programs for Black people into pointlessness<\/a>. They struck down <em>Roe<\/em> and seem to be chomping at the bit to outlaw abortion entirely, hell, maybe contraception, too. Do you feel confident <em>Obergefell<\/em> could survive a second Trump presidency? Do you feel confident <em>Loving<\/em> could? We need something light, where\u2019s Freddie? <\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/6068311e-2f8c-43d0-a500-5221cb82183e_389x492.jpeg\" alt=\"File:FreddieMercuryNov1977.jpg\"\/><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is no \u201cbridge-building\u201d with bigots. There is no \u201cbridge-building\u201d with people who want you dead. There is no \u201cbridge-building\u201d with people who think God\u2019s on their side, and He\u2019s sending you to hell. <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if you\u2019re one of those people whose family isn\u2019t talking to them because you think <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/nbc-out\/out-politics-and-policy\/mike-johnson-house-speaker-lgbtq-views-scrutiny-rcna122317\">being gay is a gateway drug to bestiality<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/results?search_query=some+more+news+woke+mind+virus\">being trans is all that\u2019s standing between humanity and Mars<\/a>? Or even if you read that sentence and thought \u201cI\u2019m not <em>like that<\/em>, but <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/REV.3.16\">I do believe in the Bible tho<\/a>,\u201d well\u2014it\u2019s not on your LGBTQIA+ relatives to reach out to you. It\u2019s time for <em>you<\/em> to call or text or email or write or whatever and make amends. It\u2019s time for <em>you<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=AkSXRN5dILo\">listen to David Lynch<\/a>. Or hey, let\u2019s get that full Baldwin quote in. <\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"James Baldwin: How Much Time Do You Want For Your &quot;Progress&quot;?\" width=\"790\" height=\"593\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/UBFDdTIYZ6Q?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because, yes\u2014a pluralistic experience <em>is<\/em> foundational to the US experience. As anti-colonial as I am, I do in fact believe that a United States that lives up to its liberty-focused founding principles can be a force for good. But a pluralistic society cannot exist when huge swaths of people feel threatened. Right now, <em>huge swaths of people in the US feel extremely threatened, and white men, you are not a part of this<\/em>. \u201cNevertheless share the experience of being marginalized,\u201d GTFO of my face with that. I know it\u2019s a white man\u2019s favorite pasttime to invent things they are being persecuted for\u2014I was in Youth Group\u2014but I promise you: Pride Month is not taking anything away from you. <\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can still ride your bicycle, but you do have to let Freddie ride <em>his <\/em>bicycle, too. He\u2019s been asking so politely (and frankly kind of urgently). <\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Queen - Bicycle Race (Official Video)\" width=\"790\" height=\"593\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xt0V0_1MS0Q?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Next week we\u2019re doing positive stuff. Maybe NBA Finals stuff, I\u2019m not sure yet. But at least positive stuff. 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